Why Are We Here?

(you and me, at this specific time…)

You probably know how many women struggle with feelings of not being “enough”!
Far Too Many, right?!

That’s why I’m here. What I do is provide the time-tested proprietary tools and expert guidance to enliven, inspire, and empower women like you to live the life you desire and deserve. Because YOU ARE ENOUGH!

What sets me apart from other coaches and consultants is:

  • I offer Proprietary Confidence-Enhancing Tools to fill your self-love toolbox and transform your life
  • 3+ Decades of empowering women via groups, consulting, & customized coaching
  • International Best-Selling Author status, twice
  • Proud recipient of the Inspirational Books Award
  • Founder of the Winged-Women™ Academy

And so, I’ll ask you: Are you fully engaged in your life with a passion and insight, and with an inspired fervor of excitement that entices you out of the cocoon of your bed each day? Or, like too many women, do you feel an emptiness inside, even though you’re well-put together on the outside?

Are you content? happy? satisfied, really?

I ask, because there are no accidents.
You are here because the Universe brought us together.

With that in mind, I encourage you to keep reading, because on this page are solutions to your emptiness. This site is all about giving you what you need to transform pain into power, struggles into strengths, and insecurities into self-confidence. EVERYTHING here is for you. 

Every post, page, offer, product, and service has roots in cultivating self-love. Because after decades in the self-development field, I can say without hesitation:

Every single person I’ve coached has life challenges with an ugly underbelly of lack of
self-confidence,  feelings of being un-worth, and not being deserving at the source. 

Women’s Empowerment is the Umbrella

Topics addressed are multiple, and include:

  • How your Confidence and Self-Worth affect every area of your life 
  • Mindfulness as a new way of creating the life you desire and deserve
  • Abundance, Money & Prosperity blockage & flow as symptoms of self-worth & deserving… 
  • Discovering your Passionate Purpose to enliven you…

You may notice that the list of topics can all relate back to self-esteem. That’s because, “how you do anything is how you do everything....”

In other words, if you’re not particularly confident, that sense of “not being good enough” seeps into every area of your life. Your level of self-confidence directly impacts everything from your love life to your finances to your health and wellness to your career and opportunities, friends and family…. 

No part of your life is not touched by
how you feel inside about WHO YOU ARE. 

There is no way to separate the areas of your life, no way to isolate or compartmentalize the pieces of YOU. You are whole/gestalt. You are the sum of all your pieces, mind-body-spirit whole…gestalt. And that translates to say that  when you up-level your confidence, your entire (whole-gestalt) life is up-leveled. There can be no other outcome.

Here’s What’s True:

You CAN be guided by your passionate purpose.
You can learn to trust yourself more each day.
You can finally step out of the shadows.
You can claim your divine birthright to shine brilliantly.
You can allow others to bask in your inspiring light.

You can cease hiding your authentic self.
You can live the life you desire.
You are worthy and deserving of the life you desire.

YOUR Life Expression

Is your life the manifested expression of your deliciously fulfilling personal taste? 
Is your life aligned with your most preciously held values? 
Are you living from a vantage point of your highest caliber expectations?
Have you created a life by conscious design that makes you feel satisfied at your core?

Do you have ample time:

  • for relaxing and self-care?
  • for following inspired creativity
  • for connecting with your inner goddess?
  • for nurturing sacred relationships?
  • for allowing your life to unfold as a reflection of your feminine principles?
  • Is your richly hued life far more than enough to sustain you at the level of your deepest emotional, intellectual, and physical cravings, or does it reinforce your feelings of emptiness?
  • Are you celebrating the unique wonder of you in all your energetically limitless potential?
  • Does your unique energetic brilliance shine so brightly, that others take notice?
  • Is there more than enough wealth in your world to allow you to support the causes you cherish, to offer you the freedom to travel to wherever you wish, to feed your soul with the experiences of whatever you want, to support those you care about, and to make it such that you never have to worry again about money?
  • Are you well-loved and pampered, both by others and from yourself?
  • Is your wellness a protected daily ritual?
  • Are you living each day in your optimal state of mind-body-spirit alignment?
  • Do you feel whole, complete, or rather, do you feel like something’s missing? Something BIG….

To get to the point: If you’re not living a fabulously textured life consciously created by you, in the frequency of your infinite spirit, and crafted decidedly to suit your expansive purposeful desires, you’re in the right place….

Make a Choice to Thrive,
to Create the Life You Desire & Deserve

You have options. You may opt to schedule a complimentary clarity Phone/Skype call using the button below to determine where you are blocking your success. This is NOT a sales call.  It is a way for you to have expert eyes take a look at your life, to identify the places where you can make small shifts for big results. IF at the end of the call WE BOTH fee like we’re a good fit for services then, and ONLY THEN, we will talk about your options. These options may include enrollment in a course, or one-on-one coaching in any number of coaching packages. 

Simply click the scheduling button and we will discover how to best empower you to live your best possible life: 
The one you desire and deserve.

Learn how to transform past pains & struggles into strengths

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to discuss your options
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When you click on the button above you’ll arrive on my personal schedule where you can find a time that works to connect for approximately 20 minutes. During that call we will determine your best next step to take. If we’re not a good fit, you will be provided with other options. Either way, you will have a clearer plan for taking steps to enhancing your life.


You have so many options for finally creating the life you desire.

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Finally, because it so accurately represents the energy of this website, and also my personal values, I would like to share with you my personal & business motto. If this motto resonates with you, you’re home; you’re in the best possible place to discover transformational tools and to receive life guidance, beginning with innumerable ways to enhance your life by enhancing your confidence and self-worth. 

Let me know what you think….

Learning to live as your beautiful authentic, confident self is possible. You CAN live the life you desire, when you believe that you deserve that lifestyle. Thousands of women across the span of 35+ years and across global miles have each learned to love every facet of who they are.

This means thousands of women world-wide have become enlivened, and perhaps more importantly, they have also become better role models, happier with themselves, have learned to redefine “selfish” to mean “self-care”,  and have transformed into the beautiful goddess woman they were always meant to be….

Remember, “how you do anything is how you do everything,” so start with increased mindfulness about how you participate in life.

Is there room for improvement in any area of your life?

  • in your romances?
  • in your finances?
  • in your creativity outlets?
  • in living your purpose?
  • in your friends arena?
  • in your health?
  • in your self-image? 
  • in your personal confidence and self-esteem? 

Schedule that complimentary excavation session and let’s see if we’re a good fit for services:

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