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First things first: Your past struggles are about to empower you,
if that’s what you choose….

Just as is shown in the little video above,
YOUR struggles are your strengths.


Your struggles have given you opportunity to build confidence
and embrace your self-worth and deserving.

  • Are you tired of the struggle of trying to move out of a place of self-doubt and feelings of not being good enough?

  • Does your lack of self-worth haunt you like a constant low-grade fever?

  • Do you appear to have it all together on the outside, while you’re experiencing emotional pain within?

  • Have you been, or are you still, a victim either financially, emotionally, physically, or in relationships?

  • Do you know in your heart there is more to life than you are experiencing?

I am Jan Deelstra, a women’s confidence and self-esteem coach for 3 decades. My passion is paving the way so that you can move with ease and grace into your purposeful, limitless life, full of confidence, feeling your value, and experiencing your feminine strengths thru connection with your infinite spirit within. (I call mine Iggy for inner goddess guidance….)

Here’s the point: Your fulfillment is my passionate purpose. Everything I create, from Winged-Women™ Business & Life Coaching, to the books I write, to the seminars and webinars and summits, to the online courses, programs, services, newsletters and posts, I create all of it with one clear intention in my heart: and that is, to bring you peace and acceptance within yourself. I want to give you everything you need to help you learn to love every facet of who you are.

And just so you know a bit of my inner goddess connection, I am a spirit-driven past proprietress of a miracle-center known as Ruby Luna’s Angel Emporium. I share that only so you get a feel for how my own spirit gets nourished. This matters because I’m going to share some mind-body-spirit empowerment with you that has its roots and wings in the feminine power principles of goddess love and receptivity.

I am also an award-winning transformational author of Escaping the Chrysalis, the life manual you’ll dog-ear and return to for clarity often. To learn about my books visit the bookshop. There, you’ll  find several more empowering books, including my most recent brainchild, Infinite Pie: From Finance to Romance, the Parallel Feminine Frequency of Money & Love. It’s written to help you get in touch with your feminine trait of receptivity for allowing abundance of love and money and joy into your life…. (The hyperlinks on this page lead to Amazon)

Most importantly, I am here for you at many levels, because I believe it’s time for you to connect to your infinite wisdom and power. It’s time for you to embrace your limitless, empowering gifts, and I am here for you because we both know you are not meant to live small, feeling inadequate, and remaining unspoken…. 

And because there are no accidents, you have been led by your infinite all-knowing Spirit to this women’s empowerment playground/grow-ground.

  • First and foremost, YOU ARE NOT BROKEN
  • You ARE meant to know that you are worthy of abundance of love, wealth, health, joy, and creativity.
  • It’s time for you to shine as the Divine light being you are.
  • You are perfect in your humanness and I can show you how to OWN YOUR perfectly human feminine powers!

I Am here as your facilitator, guiding you to your inner light and to your resultant brilliant radiance, and to your unquestionable abundance in health, wealth, love, joy, and enhanced interpersonal relationships.

What I know for sure is that within every woman is a spirit much greater than any obstacle.

Within you, there is an inner voice so clear, an intelligence so profound, a presence so divine yet, she may be stifled, abandoned, feared and instead, a question of worthiness, of deserving, and a lack of confidence have taken over the mind…and every aspect of life.

  • Forget the self-doubt
  • Step out from low energy vibrations
  • Release shackles of the past
  • Transform your devastated self-esteem
  • Learn to get your needs and desires met
  • Communicate from an empowered position
  • Remove unsupportive barriers –including people
  • Discover your calling
  • Live by your defined plan
  • Explore your limitless potential
  • Own your wings
  • Enhance the Universe with your positive ripples

The Bottom Line:

I am a confidence coach with sacred, proprietary secrets.

I have over 30 years experience empowering women in uncovering and owning their feminine powers.

And I can provide YOU with what YOU need and desire to live the life you desire and deserve.

It’s time you connect to your wisdom and power. Embrace your empowering gifts. You are not meant to live small and unspoken…

The premise of everything here is:

You have one purpose, and that is to learn to love every facet of who you are. Click To Tweet

I offer you the means to transform your life by helping you utilize all your feminine strengths to be, do, and have whatever you consciously choose to be, do, and have…, and to create that transformation beginning with enhancing the relationship you have with you. It begins with self-love. Because YOU matter.

I am here to help turn your struggles into strength and your pain into passion by offering you the tools to release your inner blocks, enhance your self-esteem, bolster your confidence, forgive yourself, and live the purposeful life you desire.

I differ from other life-coaches because I have a treasure trove of sacred, trade-secret, self-love, self-esteem enhancement tools which have been gathered, tried, tested and perfected over the course of 3+ decades. All around the globe, these proprietary tools and techniques have transformed the lives of women. And they can do the same for you.

You are invited to start the process of filling your Goddess-Enhancing Self-Love Toolkit by opting in to receive an endless stream of gifts and goodies, and to begin to receive your free subscription to the juicy transformational newsletter. 

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Once you have subscribed, be sure to safe list me (jandeelstra@jandeelstra.com)! Then make yourself at home here! Check out the various services and product offerings, and taste from the sampling. Watch a video, listen to an audio or podcast, download a PDF, peruse and subscribe to the BLOG posts, visit the services page.

And if you feel compelled to connect for a free Strategy Session schedule it below.
We will create a step-by-step plan
 to transform 1 BIG challenge or issue
-anything that is causing you to lose sleep….

Imagine your possibilities when this one challenge is released….
What does your life look like when you are freed of the old pattern?
What does it look like if you do nothing?


Make the appointment and then make the call.

You have my word and my promise:
There is no “hard-selling” to try to convince you to invest in anything more.
And you will be amazed at the power of a 15 minute Strategy Session.

Sometimes all it takes is a little clarity.

So start by answering the following questions:

What keeps you up at night?
What is ONE thing, that if released, would free your energy for greatness?

Schedule a Strategy Session.

It’s the place to start to step into your new normal:

A power confident women who owns it ~ALL of It!
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