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Is Your Inner Child Ruining the $$$ Flow?

Ever since the doors opened to the MONEY MATTERS: Mastering Money Manifesting course at the Winged-Women™ Academy, there have been a LOT of discussions about the messages learned in childhood, and how those childhood lessons are still affecting your money thermostat. It doesn’t seem possible, does it, that lessons learned before you were even seven years old could be governing your wealth potential. But it’s true.

We learn our belief systems as very little children, and then we move through
life creating experiences to match our beliefs. Look back in your own life and
notice how often you have gone through the same experience.
– Louise L. Hay

The quote by Louise Hay has been a catalyst for conversation in the course, with many of those enrolled emailing and messaging me for clarity. So as a blanket response, here’s something that may make the idea of your inner child having a say in your abundance flow, easier to understand. And more importantly, since we cannot change what we do not see (another adage from the course) acknowledging the childhood messages allows for them to be examined and transmuted.

  • Start by asking yourself what was your earliest childhood memory around money?
  • Did you witness your parents or guardians talking or arguing about money?
  • What was the wealth energy of your environment (affluent, middle-income, lower income, poverty)
  • Did you receive an allowance, and if so, was it consistent and did you have to work for it?
  • Consider who your role models for money were, and if they were happy, stressed, etc.

As a child, you were a sponge, soaking up the vibrations of your environment.
You were also soaking up the emotions that swirled around you.

The messages, emotions, stories, conditions, of childhood were being interpreted by a child’s mind. That’s not a problem if all was smooth sailing. Yet even without money stress, you learned habits, formed beliefs based on those of your caregivers, developed biases and opinions about wealth and the wealthy.

And all of that was solidifying in your subconscious mind before your seventh birthday, and much of it, before you were two-years-old.

Now that you know that, sit with your journal and start writing about all the beliefs, values, biases, ancestral and current money stories. Look at your current finances, and without judging yourself, make a plan to re-determine what your money story will be as we end this year.

It’s time to gently take the money control out of the hands of the two-year-old.

Re-write YOUR money story.

And if you are ready to deep, far beyond mindset and vastly more layered than the law of attraction, ENROLL in MONEY MATTERS: Mastering Money Manifesting. It’s where the big girls are owning their wings, and re-creating life on their terms.

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